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Golden Delight Pancakes October 29, 2006

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It is Sunday morning here in Tokyo. This morning I decided to make our favorite weekend breakfast, Golden Delight Pancakes. As I was pouring the batter onto the griddle, I thought about how I used this same cast-aluminum griddle to make the pancakes in New York, how I carried it up to Croton-on-Hudson to make them there, and how Mark and I made them in our little frying pan in Geneva. They have travelled the world with us! I decided to buy a blender here just for this. And so I thought I would take a minute to share the recipe.

Golden Delight Pancakes

6 eggs
1/4 cup oil
1/4 cup milk
1 cup cottage cheese
1/2 cup flour
1/2 tsp salt

Put all ingredients together in a blender and blend together at high speed for one minute. Pour onto a griddle to make small pancakes, about 3″ to 4″ in diameter.

I hope you enjoy these as much as we do!

Just Pictures October 26, 2006

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Juliet is taking a music class at Gymboree. She wants to play the guitar!

Isabella is dressed for a Halloween parade at school today, as a glamorous witch complete with pink sparkly false eyelashes and nails, purple hair, and a green broom.

A Visitor From America October 26, 2006

Posted by Kristen in Language, Tokyo Adventures, Visitors.
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Earlier this week we had our very first visitor from the U.S. My brother Jon is here in Japan for his annual Aikido training, and was able to extend his visit by a few days in order to spend some time with us. He arrived in Tokyo on Sunday afternoon and had no trouble getting into the city on the comfortable airport bus to a nearby hotel. He astonished us all by sleeping until nearly 11:00 am Monday morning, a near impossibility with the 14-hour time difference!

We had a low-key day on Monday. We began with a stroll through nearby Arisugawa Park, a beautiful and lush landscaped park a few blocks from our apartment. Juliet enjoyed watching the ducks in the pond and we discovered a surprising black and yellow spider on a web between some trees. Further along, we went up the hill and found a lovely little waterfall. The park also includes a fairly nice (though rather dirty) playground that I visit with Juliet almost every day. We had a slightly adventuresome lunch at a noodle shop that had no menu in English but did have plastic food on display outside so that we could point to what we wanted. We found that there is something unexpected about ordering more than one of something: when Jon pointed to one bowl and said “ni” (which means “two”), the woman did not seem to understand and kept holding up fingers to ask how many. Mark and I had experienced the same problem before when ordering food. We resolved to find the answer to this puzzle soon.

Monday night was our now regular treat, kaiten sushi at Roppongi Hills. This time was a first for me, however, as we had a babysitter for Juliet and I got to eat my sushi without any little hands grabbing for my food! Isabella ordered several special plates by herself, to be sure she got her favorites without wasabe. It was exciting to see her trying out new words and being so brave.

On Tuesday Noriko came to babysit for Juliet and Jon and I set out for a day of sightseeing. Before we left we asked her about the mystery of ordering two of something. The answer is that in Japanese, they don’t use the same numbers for counting 1-2-3 as they do for saying a number of objects. If you want two of something, you have to say “futatsu”. (That is, of course, unless it’s something flat. Then it’s “nimai”. Long and thin–”nihon”. Two people is “futari”. Got that? There will be a quiz tomorrow). Jon and I resolved to use this at lunch today.

This was my very first day as a tourist in Japan! Knowing almost nothing about sightseeing in Tokyo, we went for the most obvious sites. First we visited the very famous temple Senso-ji at Asakua. It was a cold and rainy day but we still enjoyed walking around the temple and surrounding shrines, and browsing the nearby tourist shops. Jon was especially interested in all the elegant hakama in different designs and colors. They wear these for Aikido, but only in basic black. We found a tempura place for lunch and tried out our new word, “futatsu”. Hooray, it worked! Another mystery unlocked.

Next we got back on the subway and headed for the Imperial Palace. Although the palace and most of its grounds are off-limits, there are many other beautiful gardens to stroll through. We walked by the Budokan, which wasn’t much to see. We found the Science Museum but decided not to go in, as it would be a good place to visit with Isabella. Eventually we found our way to the Crafts Museum and perused the special exhibit, a display of modern Japanese jewelry that is at times elegant, avant-garde, whimsical, or even silly. It was the kind of unusual and pleasantly unexpected site that one occasionally happens upon during this sort of stream-of-consciousness sightseeing. Back home with aching feet, there was just time for Jon to pack up his one compact bag and head for the train.

Catching up October 22, 2006

Posted by Kristen in Gripes, Kids, Tokyo Adventures.
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I have found it a challenge to keep up with this journal, though I very much want to. While Juliet and Mark snooze and Isabella watches High School Musical for the 8th time, I thought I’d breeze through a quick summary.

Last weekend was Isabella’s birthday. Mark had to go to New York on business the week before but was able to return Friday night in order to be here the whole day. The day started out with a bang as we experienced our first earthquake. Mark, jet-lagged, had been up for 2 hours and Isabella, excited for the big day, was up with him. I was still asleep at 6:30 am when I felt the bed shake. At first I thought it was Isabella coming to ask if she could open presents, but soon I realized she could not move the bed like that. The bed rocked back and forth as though moved by invisible hands as I gradually awoke, puzzled. It was hard to tell how long it went on, perhaps 2 minutes. It was a very strange sensation, but not frightening. I was glad to have been half-awake; Mark and Isabella were a little more worried, I think. And then it was over. Nothing rattled, nothing broken. It was a reminder that we need to get our earthquake kit in order.

We celebrated the birthday at the American club, with swimmng and bowling. We went elsewhere for dinner: Isabella’s favorite, kaiten sushi. At this kind of sushi restaurant, plates are placed on a conveyor belt that rolls continually by the tables. You just pick up what you want as it goes by (the plates are color-coded by price). As you can see, Isabella enjoyed her dinner very much!

Juliet’s favorite part of the dinner was feeding her tamago (egg) sushi to Mommy.

The following week was another busy one, as always. Tuesday I had my first Japanese lesson and then headed off to the American Club for my first workout in nearly 2 months. I was so pleased to be exercising again and even managed to make a decent dinner on Tuesday night, mushroom ravioli with a shiitake-cream sauce. But then on Wednesday morning I woke up completely exhausted and feeling thoroughly sick. I spent most of the next 2 days in bed. Luckily, Noriko was here to help me out during the day. Thursday evening Mark had a late phone conference with New York and didn’t get home until 11 pm. Then he had to pack for his business trip to Beijing the next day. He awoke at 5:30 am on Friday morning to catch the bus to the airport. I felt somewhat better on Friday and was able to stagger through the day alone with Juliet, as Noriko has another job on Fridays (Mondays, too). My new rice cooker and some frozen chicken meatballs got us through the evening.

Mark returned Saturday afternoon. Now I’ve had a day to recover and feel almost back to normal. Do I dare try to work out again? Of course the longer I put it off, the more likely I am to get sick. It’s a tricky thing, getting back into shape when you’re overtired and (dare I say it?) on the far side of 40.

Today was another adventurous day. We all piled into a taxi and headed off to a big department store to try to do some home shopping together. We came home with a fancy lunchbox set for Isabella (they’re really quite elaborate here–now I’m going to have to learn how to pack Japanese lunches!), a nice pair of chopsticks for each of us, and some exercise equipment. We were able to get a set of weights and a sort of simple stepmaster-thing and will have them delivered next week. Then, for a treat, we added on a new espresso machine. We can’t wait to try it out! As much as I love regular coffee, I’ve found that nothing beats the punch or speed of a good strong cup of espresso when you’ve got a one-year-old to chase around!

A Lesson in Katakana October 21, 2006

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Japanese writing is made up of 3 separate alphabets: hiragana, katakana, and kanji. Hiragana and katakana are phonetic alphabets, with one symbol representing each consonant-vowel combination (such as ta, so, chi, etc.) and katakana is used just for words of foreign origin. Kanji is the same system of picture-writing that is used in China. There are about 1500 kanji in regular use (or was it 2000?). They are all used together, to make things even more confusing. During our limited time here in Japan, it will be impossible to learn much in the way of kanji, but hiragana and katakana are entirely possible.

I have now had 2 Japanese lessons and have begun to learn katakana. Here is a website that shows the entire chart along with their sounds: http://www.tokyowithkids.com/fyi/katakana_chart.html. So far, I’ve learned the a, ka, sa and ta rows. I’ve been delighted to find that I still have the brainpower to memorize new symbols and I’m having a lot of fun with it.

Yesterday I picked up my bag of baby carrots and was delighted to find that I could decode a word on the label!

Here is my first word in katakana:

スイート

The long dash-like line is used to indicate that the vowel of the preceding letter is a long vowel. If you decode this, it says “su-i-to”, which is pronounced something like “sweet”. So here it is, the first word I’ve ever read on my own in Japanese! I’m very excited.

Later in the day, I also read this word: タクシー (ta-ku-shi). Can you guess what this means?

A few pictures October 12, 2006

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The cupcakes were a hit.

And here’s Juliet playing in the sandbox at the park.

Furniture in Translation October 11, 2006

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When I woke up this morning, the day ahead seemed relatively simple and manageable. The plan was this: in the morning, the furniture rental company would come to pick up our rental furniture; in the afternoon, our new furniture would be delivered. As I had already braved Ikea on my own last week, and had all of that furniture safely delivered yesterday (well, all I was able to buy–but that’s still a story for another time), I thought this would be very easy.

I had asked Noriko to come at 9:00 so that I could be sure she would be here when the rental guys came. Once she arrived, I finished up the task of stripping the beds and cleaning off the tables. The guys finally arrived around 10:00. The removal took a little longer than I had anticipated but went smoothly. They were helpful and accommodating when I asked them to move the TV from the living room into the den (it’s their TV, but we’re keeping it for awhile longer). At 11:30 they were gone. The furniture delivery was supposed to come between 1:00 and 3:00, so I decided to go out for lunch and do some errands. As Isabella’s birthday is coming up, I had to buy cake making ingredients and supplies (cupcakes to bring to school tomorrow, and a cake for the family celebration). After a quick sushi lunch, I managed to find everything I needed for the cake. Granted, the cake pans cost $9 each, but I was happy to find them. I had better luck with the plastic boxes in which to transport the cupcakes, which I found at the 100 yen store–which means they cost 100 yen apiece, around 85 cents. I got home right at 1:00. The furniture delivery team from IDC arrived at around 2:00. Consistent with the high level of service in Japan generally, and with this rather upscale store in particular, the salesman who had helped us came along to oversee the delivery. It seemed like overkill at the time, but I soon found out that it was a very good thing.

After they rang the doorbell and I let them into the building, it took quite some time before they came up to the door. I wondered if they were moving the truck or something. When they finally arrived, the salesman told me that they were here to deliver the furniture but that there was a problem. Apparently, they were greeted at the front door by the superintendent who informed them that they would have to put up protection on all of the walls, including the stairwell and elevator, before they could move any furniture. And, apparently, this was very unusual and they were not prepared for it. The super had told them that if they could not do it, they would have to come back another day. Now if you’ve been following the story carefully, you’ll realize that we had no furniture at all in the apartment at this point.

Our helpful salesman told me that he would do everything possible to deliver the furniture and suggested that I come with him to the building office to talk to the super. What followed was about 45 minutes of me listening to people talk to each other very politely and with strained smiles on their faces, after which I would be informed by Mr. Salesman that they still said no. The main office was called. The man authorized to make the decision was in a meeting and we were told to wait 20 minutes to speak to him. Mr. Salesman politely said no, they should call him out of the meeting to talk to us (at least that’s what he told me he said). Then Mr. Super decided to come and look at the truck and see the furniture to be moved. The verdict at this point was no, it could not be moved without required protection. At this point I explained that I had a child to pick up from school in an hour and a half, after which I would have to sit them down to dinner somewhere and put them to bed, all of which would be very difficult without furniture! Finally Mr. Guy-in-Charge was out of his meeting and called Mr. Super and everyone spoke to him, except that Mr. Super wouldn’t let me speak to him. This was very frustrating, as Mr. Guy-in-Charge turned out to be the real estate agent who had showed us the apartment and who has been our main contact on all apartment issues. In short, he’s the one person I could have actually asked for help. But finally, for a reason that was never clear to me, Mr. Super decided that they could move the furniture if they were very careful and if he supervised to make sure they didn’t scratch the walls.

At this point, I came back up to the apartment to see how Noriko and Juliet were doing. Juliet was in bed, and Noriko had decided to help out by starting to put together Isabella’s new dresser from Ikea. A truly kind and thoughtful gesture, really, but now this meant that we were committed to finishing the project today. Now Ikea furniture is relatively straightforward to assemble, but it is not trivial. You really need to have 2 people (thanks for the tip, Caryl!) to fit some of the pieces together. It went fairly smoothly until we got to the point where you were supposed to put the back on. Step 1, nail in top left corner of back piece. Step 2, nail in top right. Step 3, nail in bottom left and right. Step 4, nail in the rest of the 30 nails provided.

In spite of the 30 nails (and managing to only poke one through to the inside of the drawer), we were nearly finished by 4:00, time to leave and pick up Isabella. I asked Noriko to go and stayed to finish the dresser. Juliet, thankfully, continued to sleep. The lovely furniture from IDC was progressing nicely. Finally, the day was winding down. At around 5:00, all the new furniture was in place, Isabella was home and Juliet up. The only problem at this point was that I had never managed to get anything simple to make for dinner. Then a brilliant idea struck me–why not have Noriko help me order a pizza?

They have Domino’s and Pizza Hut here; the only problem, of course, is that you need to be able to actually communicate to the person on the phone if you want to order a pizza. Therefore, we had not tried this before. I didn’t have any menus, having thrown them all away because I couldn’t read them. So I decided to go on the internet. You can follow along on my journey at http://www.dominos.jp/ . When I saw the website, I got the idea that I could create a web account so that I could order by myself in the future. Okay, if you’re following along with me, you probably see that this is a ridiculous idea. But if you’d had the day I had, you’d understand my desperation! With Noriko’s help, I got as far as entering in all my personal informatin (including, for some reason, my gender and birthdate). But when I tried to click on the button to create the account, I got an error. It seems you have to type your name in Katakana, one of the 3 Japanese scripts. I guess I was getting a wee bit obsessed at this point, because I decided to try to figure out how to do this on my computer. I thought maybe I could enter the text in Word and then cut and paste. I checked Help for Word, which then led me to Microsoft Office help on the web, and on and on. I found that support for Asian languages in installed by default in Windows XP, and even managed to get a little drop-down menu on my toolbar. But even when I set it to Japanese, nothing happened. Alas, I was foiled. No web account today.

In the end, Noriko called in my order. We got a large pizza with sausage and mushrooms, for about $20.50. I guess those stories about the price of pizza in Japan are at least partly true. But on the positive side, you don’t tip here. And the happy ending is that they now have our name and address in their computer and can retrieve it with our phone number. We also learned that there is usually someone there who speaks English and that if we speak slowly, they may be able to take our order. This is a major breakthrough in dining convenience! And the pizza, despite the very strange-looking yellow cheese, was very good. The crust was definitely superior to Domino’s in New York.

Now if you’ve been paying attention, you’ll recall the bit about the cupcakes above. Ah yes, the cupcakes. For tomorrow at school. Once Juliet was in bed, Isabella and I had cupcakes to bake. At least here, I had the sense to take a reasonable shortcut: I bought a Duncan Hines cake mix at National Azabu, the international supermarket down the street. Now, finally, the cupcakes are baked and cooled and merely await topping with the violet-colored buttercream frosting we made. (Yes, they have food coloring here–but it is a powder. We opened the little boxes to take out the little bottles and found tiny spoons. You dip the tiny spoon into the powder and dump it into your food, trying not to get it all over your clothes in the process. Thank goodness Isabella had the idea for us to put on aprons!)

And now at long last, I will put the sheets on my new bed and then sit down for a few minutes on some of our very comfy new furniture. The new day will start too early once again, and I have cupcakes to deliver.

School woes October 10, 2006

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After two and a half weeks, it seems that the novelty of the new school has worn off and the stress is beginning to set in. Isabella confided in me this afternoon that she had had a bad day because her friends were making fun of her on the bus. What did they say, I asked? Well, she said, they were teasing her about the way she was talking to her magical cat. It seems she has a magical spell-cat, whose real name is too long to say or type, but whom she calls Adeedah in spell-language. Adeedah speaks all languages; Isabella speaks to her in spell-language. I asked her more about her day and about the other kids in her class. Apparently, most children are more comfortable in Japanese than English and they speak Japanese to each other all the time in school. Sometimes she hears her own name but can’t understand what they’re saying about her. It seems that it’s really hard to be the only one who can’t speak Japanese. Luckily, she now has a friend to whom she can speak in a language only she can understand.

Isabella went on to sing for me some of the songs her cat had taught her today, such as “The Star Spangled Banner” (okay, she called it “Oh Say Can You See”). Interestingly enough, spell-language has pronunciation and intonation that sound very Japanese.

Beginnings October 8, 2006

Posted by Kristen in Kids, Language, School, Tokyo Adventures, Travel.
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It seems that it’s about time I started recording some of our adventures and thoughts about our new life in Tokyo. A blog seems the best way to do it. Here, then, begins my novice attempt.

To start, I’m going to cheat a bit and copy from some emails I sent recently. Chances are, you’ve already read what follows. I apologize for the repition; still, it makes this a more complete journal.

How it all began . . . .

Here we are, at last, settled in Tokyo. Mark was given the opportunity to move here for a few years to head up computer system development in several areas for the Asia region of his company. We think we will be here for about 3 years. We are really excited to have the opportunity to live in Japan, especially for the opportunities it will give for Isabella (who will be 8 in a week) and Juliet (now 14 months) to learn a new language and experience another culture. Once we made the decision to relocate, we had to move fast in order to get Isabella settled in school as close to the start of the year as possible. Here’s what we’ve been up to!

After the possibility of this move first came up in mid-June, we had a whirlwind of a summer. Following a trip to Glacier National Park with the Poppele family and a short visit to Seattle to visit friends, we returned to New York to begin the enormous task of preparing for the big move. We came to Tokyo for a week in August to look for housing and find a school for Isabella. Back in New York, we spent some time at the summer house we had already rented in Croton-on-Hudson and tried to see friends and tie up loose ends. We spent Labor Day weekend in Mayfield, Kentucky with Mark’s family. Isabella began the school year at her old school in New York while I tried to sort through all our worldly possessions, figure out Juliet’s vaccination schedule, get fluoride vitamins, take a truckload of stuff to Goodwill, sell the car (making 2 visits to the DMV in the process), and plan a farewell party for Isabella, just to name a few things. It was a crazy couple of weeks, ending with 3 nights at the lovely Holiday Inn Chinatown after our furniture had been packed up and sent to storage. Our New York apartment is now empty and awaiting tenants to whom we hope to sublet.

We left New York on Saturday, September 16 and arrived in Tokyo on Sunday the 17th.

We were able to move right into our apartment with rental furniture, dishes and linens. Then we began the enormous task of getting settled here! We applied for our residence permits. We got the all-important cell phones. We have finally bought some furniture of our own and expect it to be delivered next week. Isabella has started school and Juliet is enrolled in a class at Gymboree. We have found a Japanese babysitter for Juliet. Mark had just begun to get settled at work when he left on Saturday for a business trip to New York.

Every day is an adventure, and usually exhausting. It is very frustrating to be unable to communicate, and even more frustrating to be unable to read! I went to the drugstore to buy lotion, and couldn’t find any. Dozens of bottles labeled in Japanese, and no clue as to what they contained. Some things are easier, such as baby food, which has helpful pictures of the ingredients on the label.

Isabella is in 3rd grade at the New International School. She has Japanese as an Additional Language every day. Her regular classroom has a both an English and a Japanese teacher, and lessons are given in both languages. Every child learns violin as part of music class, so she has been working hard on Twinkle Twinkle Little Star. The curriculum revolves around themes and they are currently studying the ocean. In the first week they made an enormous accordion book with the help of a professional artist. The school is not close, and she has a bus ride of more than an hour each way. It is a long and tiring day. But she has made several friends and is happy at school, and we are delighted with the opportunities it provides.

Juliet has a terrific new babysitter named Noriko. She is the mother of an 8-year-old boy and lives nearby. She and her husband are separated and she wants to work to become independent, so she’s babysitting while studying at home for a license in early childhood education. She will speak to Juliet only in Japanese, and last week went to the library to get some Japanese picture books for them to read together. She’s also an enormous help to me. Last week, I planned a furniture shopping trip by myself to Ikea (more on that adventure later!) and asked her somewhat casually if she knew how to take the train there. The next day, she arrived with the instructions written out in complete detail: which station to go to, which side of the street to enter on, the exact fare, and every single stop along the route written out! She’s a real treasure and I feel incredibly lucky.

Mark and I will begin our language lessons soon with the JAL Academy (that’s JAL as in Japan Airlines–I guess they have to train a lot of people in Japanese!). We will each have a teacher who comes to us a few times a week. As it turns out, it is pretty easy to get around here without speaking Japanese (unless, of course, you want to buy lotion). That’s nice for now, but it means we will have to put a concentrated effort into studying if we really want to learn the language. And we really do! I want to learn Japanese just for the fun of learning a new language, and so that I can talk to people here and learn more about the country. And if we’re here long enough, I really want to send Juliet to a Japanese preschool. That means I’ll have to be able to communicate somewhat with the teachers. I hope if I start now, I’ll be able to do that in a few years.